With technology these days, there are so many cheap/non decietful ways to get pregnant if you're fertility is intact, that I think using the 'bar method' is just a bit silly and unsafe. Heck you could take a holiday to Spain, pick up sperm there (I believe it's legal there lol), inseminate and go home AND have a nice holiday lol.

Much better to find a sperm donor (hello goggle!) and go the turkey baster method (or in nicer words 'home insemination'). Sadly, it's not the adults that will be facing the repurcussions. The adults were silly in this situation - but on a whole, not a big deal. The only thing that was more cheeky than that was her asking her for maitenence! I don't think it's on to ask a woman to take it as you don't know her stance on it. I don't like it - but if he didn't use protection, then he opened the door to the possibility.Īlso, using the MAP as contraception?! Not on and from the way the OP describes it, it sounds like it wasn't a big deal to ask her - it's meant as emergency contraception and I'm getting the feeling that instead of using a condom, the bloke just thought, oh well she can take MAP tomorrow. BUT the fact she is now asking him for money makes me a little less sympathetic. I kind of think that if he didn't use protection, she knew what she was doing, she could have not contacted him again and I wouldn't have that much of an issue with it. She had the baby and had nothing to do with him, but then she got tight for money, contacted the CSA and is now claiming maintenance. She found out she was pregnant and decided to tell him, and he suggested an abortion and was rather angry she hadn't got the MAP. You are under no obligation at all to enter into a relationship with the mother (actually, that would be a spectacularly bad idea) but you do have an obligation towards the. A paternity test is certainly highly recommended. However when he did ask about protection (the morning after) she assured him she would take the morning after pill, which clearly she didn't. Answer (1 of 8): Yes, you are responsible for that child if it is yours. I didn't have that much of a problem with it at first because if he was stupid enough to not even consider protection, which he didn't then I don't think she was that in the wrong. The woman really wanted a baby and got fed up of waiting for mr right, her mum suggested she just use a one night stand, so she did! I saw this on the front of one of the womens magazines at work yesterday and couldn't resist having a read. Breastfeeding: the trick to a comfy latch.

One night stand pregnant